On a less upset note, i think i should post what i read in church today :)
Thought that it's a good reminder for me :)
加 拉 太 書 5:22-26
22 圣灵所结的果子,就是仁爱,喜乐,和平,忍耐,恩慈,良善,信实,
23 温柔,节制。这样的事,没有律法禁止。
24 凡属基督耶稣的人,是已经把肉体,连肉体的邪情私欲,同钉在十字架上了。
25 我们若是靠圣灵得生,就当靠圣灵行事。
26 不要贪图虚名,彼此惹气,互相嫉妒。
Galatians 5:22-26
22But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 23gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law. 24Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the sinful nature with its passions and desires. 25Since we live by the Spirit, let us keep in step with the Spirit. 26Let us not become conceited, provoking and envying each other.